first there was M, and then there was mama, who suggested doing on online background search on him. that's how i found out he was married. :(
then there's M2, and then there's Carrie, who was so hell bent on saving her cousin from further harm, but who saved me instead.
God must have his guardian angels working overtime for me, saving me from my own self sometimes!
Lesson to learn-- avoid men whose names begin with M?
Lesson to learn-- i am meant for bigger, better, more authentic men.