okay, okay, after that initial dumping with "Bad", there's a germ of a future yet for me.
the same yahoo personals relationship results say that with all the good things i am, i should focus on finding men who are available and kind, and stop wasting my time on men who may excite me but who are not really there for me and not kind to my spirit and my esteem.
except that right now, the available and kind ones i see around me also bore me to death with their niceness.
somebody attractive and independent and who's his own man, but available and kind. somebody with a good heart.
tough order, Universe, but serve him up! i'm up to the challenge.